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She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Posted by on Mar 22, 2014 in Resources, Sex Appeal | 0 comments

My experience is that most men want to think of themselves as great lovers. But womens’ bodies are so radically different from mens’ bodies, that it can be difficult for a man to fully get what a women needs to feel ultimate pleasure. This book is a very useful manual. Here’s the description.

“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
Cosmopolitan

 

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirlmagazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

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How to Make Love to a Man

Posted by on Mar 22, 2014 in Resources, Sex Appeal | 0 comments

This book has been around for a while and it’s kind of a classic. I found it helped me understand my male partner better – and when I read sections of it out loud to him while we were on a road trip, it gave us some great food for discussion and became a helpful point of reference.

ASK ANY MAN. If you can get him to admit it, he’ll probably tell you that he would like to be made love to almost as much as being a good lover.
In the past, it is the man who has been responsible for not only the lovemaking, but the romance: candlelight, flowers, music, and tenderness. HOW TO MAKE LOVE TO A MAN, a classic best-seller, is the first book to focus on men’s sexual and emotional needs, and to talk to today’s woman who would like to be an active partner but doesn’t quite know how. More than a manual for having sex (though it is that too), this is a guide to the art of making love. The author, after interviewing doctors, sex therapists, women, and most important, more than 200 men, has been able to understand men’s deepest emotional needs.
The author discusses what men find sexy in a woman; how to show a man that you are interested, how to get a man to share his emotional and sexual needs, how to enhance sex through a massage, touching, and improved timing, and much more.
Whether married or single, the reader will gain new insight on making “whole” love—developing the attitude and the understanding that make the love act complete and meaningful.

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